Well, I am still really confused about what we are going to do. We decided to have an intimate wedding where we live, and even made our guests lists, totaling 48. Then, however, we decided that we want to get married THIS YEAR. yes, this year that is halfway over. We are in no financial position to have a wedding on that scale on such short notice. Now begins Project Scale-Down.
Eloping seems like the obvious choice here. Very little expense, easily done on very short notice. Something inside me is nagging to have someone present, though. To keep things small, and to keep me relaxed, it needs to be very few people. At this moment, I am really feeling pulled toward eloping. Tomorrow, I may wake up and be ready to pare down the guest list to the bare minimum. It’s just such a stressful task for me. It was hard enough to get to 50.
We really want to get married in October, so I better figure things out quickly!